It's all about relationships

 I don't mean it's not important how much you have on your accounts, or what make is your car. Comfort is a pleasant luxury option, but those things make your body feel good. What makes your soul feel truly happy is the sense, not words, the sense of being in right relationships - at home, at work, with friends, with yourself. This is what truly matters. At the end of the day, you need the car to drive your beloved ones around, you need the phone to use it in communicating with your people. Even a bread and cheese breakfast with your true friend will make you feel much happier than a fancy dining with five courses in a suit-and-tie haute couture restaurant. 

The relationships where there's no "balance", but each of you tries to do yet something more for the other one- buy their favorite food, order their favorite flowers, remember their favorite colors and smells. And never count how much is spent, but rather how much is felt.

Happiness is in relationships, indeed. The feeling of your close friend dealing with your mood swings, or the patience you find in yourself when your people do drama. This is a detector of who is ours and who is not. I guess if we have nerves for each other, this is true relationship. 

It's not about "let go, and if they don't come back, they aren't your people". It's more about, " if you truly can let go, then do let go", because we don't want, we aren't ready to cope, we aren't capable of letting go of our people. Because we love them, and us with them. Period.