I have been working on this for the recent time - we do not need to express our thoughts to everyone and always. Maybe this is something you all knew and told be, but i never actually got it until I ended up here myself - people will not always understand us, be open to digest what we offer and not judge.
Another thing I have been paying attention to is how easily things work out for me when I do not share my plans and achievements with people. In fact, I had been reading about keeping our thoughts about intentions to ourselves for a while, but it was days ago that I landed on the destination of having achieved or accidentally given something I truly deserved, even if not worked very hard for. And then, at the moment of glory and fulfillment, it is really challenging not to brag and share, but silently savoring one's moment of achievement and success is priceless.
Another thing I noticed is how nice it felt when the outcome actually exceeds my expectations. Having been an unbearable optimist for three decades I came to realize it is not always good to be an optimist. When I headed to Stepanavan with old tires, being convinced they would either just become flat or explode somewhere between Fioletovo and Shahumyan, imagine my surprise when i amde it to the parking in our yard safe and sound.
