Every good relationship is a matter of give and take, and if it is just give or just take, it is bound to end at a point, and the earlier the better. We usually crystallize our beloved people and make up excuses when they simply treat us wrong, but we should stop any unhealthy relationship which makes us feel unappreciated, unrecognized, unfulfilled.
If a friend does not call us it is not because the friend is super busy, it is because we are not a priority at the moment, and that is fine.
If our romantic partner does not buy for us presents and organize surprises it is okay, and it is fine they do not want us.
It is us who let them treat us that way.
It is us that made them used to treating us that way.
They call us high maintenance or blame for our high expectations but they never fail to get from us what they want. It is we who feels bad to claim what is ours by our right of devotion and care and invested feelings.
When the balance of give and take it somehow not fair, it is okay to take ourselves and step out of a relationship that does not make us feel good but which leaves us wasted and used. It is okay to quit when the people we love don’t love us the way we want them. And when we give up it is not because we stopped loving them, but because our instinct of self-care doesn’t let us continue the unhealthy relationship.
Every good relationship is a matter of five and take. And once the parties involved stop investing, it’s okay to withdraw.
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